The
first call is always the most important. Perhaps you just met your prospective date for the first time. The next thing to do is ask for their number. When they give the number, that's your cue to make the first call. But, when and how will you make that call? You have to make a darn good impression even over the phone. You shouldn't come off looking too eager and you shouldn't keep them waiting for that call either. So, what's the real deal when it comes to first calls? It may seem like a pretty easy task but it's really mind-boggling, not to mention, exasperating and sometimes it develops into an
unexpected stressful feeling.
So, when should you really call after they have dropped you their digits? It's a cardinal rule to never call the next day. Calling the next day immediately would only make you seem desperate and eager. But, never make the call a week or two after you've gotten their numbers. Truth be told, if you took that long to call them, they wouldn't bother to remember who you are at all. Your call should be made at night, not too early in the evening and never too late. Make sure that you're calling after
dinner time and before bed time. That way, you wouldn't be bothering them when you call. You should always call from a place that's private and comfortable. The relaxed setting would also calm your nerves. Hence, you wouldn't sound nervous and there's a huge chance that you won't stutter. You should start the conversation since you called. Make nice and pleasant small talks. Observe if they want to talk for a long time. If they're busy, make your point and call it a night. The most important thing is to ask them out on a date. After that, you can chitchat your night away after your first date.
