I have been through dozens of dates and I must say, you can really read your date's feelings through his or her
body language. I always observe my date through her body language and I know that she reads mine as well. So, how should you act during a date so you won't throw her off? It's not so much of a mystery when you act up on a date, don't you think? It just goes to show that you're uncomfortable when you show weird behaviors or gestures.
During
intimate dinner dates, I make it a point to always make myself upright and confident. I move carefully and slowly to show that I'm comfortable around her. I also make pauses when we talk so I can respond to her coolly and collectively. Pauses also indicate that you are in fact, listening to what she's saying. In contrast to this, I suggest that you avoid talking too fast and avoid saying too much. This would make you seem too eager and too unruly to converse with.
Be aware of your gestures. You should avoid making awkward and nervous gestures, even if you are indeed, nervous. This would make you seem gawky and insecure about yourself. When you talk, make sure to make
eye contact. Look into her eyes and never look away. This would really get the both of you into an intimate interaction.
