I have always wondered why women have the penchant for bad boys. I never understood why it all boils down to the
Johnny Depp types when clearly, they're the ones who do nor show too much enthusiasm when it comes to wooing women. It's the women who actually try to impress them, so to speak. So, what is it about not being the perfect gentleman or the perky enthusiastic lad that turns women on? What are the mistakes that guys make?
The first thing is, never be too perfectly nice. Of course, there are many of us who are naturally nice. But, when it comes to women, you have to make them feel that interest and attraction on you. Don't lay it all out by being the "too nice" guy. Women are like men, in the sense that women want a
'bad guy challenge'. Who gets challenged with nice men, anyway? Also, never try to persuade a woman to like you. For Pete's sake, they'll like you when they like you.
That's just how the world turns. When you're out on a
romantic date, don't spill your guts out. Never be the first to share your feelings too early. If she does it, that's fine. But, if you do, they'll lose interest. I tell you, women may not admit it, but they like figuring guys out by themselves. If they figure you out too soon, they'll drop you, just like that. So, sometimes it can be a mistake to be too nice.
