Guideline Number One is to never date someone who hasn't placed a photo in her profile. This is the Visual Age (as it has always been) so no matter how much
Adobe Photoshop retouching has been done to a butt-ugly missus' photo, it's still way better than none at all. The bottom line is that you got to have an idea of how she looks like and it will always be up to you whether you'd be happy to go cellulite-hugging or fugly-kissing anytime of the day. As things always spiral down to a happy ending, if she shows her butt in the photo, it would be a hell lot better for both of you.